廁所高見 之 二

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Relationships... with your loved one, with your friends, with your family, and with all people in general are supposed to improve when you become and grow as a true Christian.

Why?

Because the more you love and know who God really is and how great He is, the more humble you will become. Nothing destroys your relationship with God more than your selfish desires, and the only way to grow spiritually is to surrender more and more to God: "He must increase, but I must decrease". (John 3:30)

And as you become more humble, you will begin to learn to consider others first before yourself, and to learn to love selflessly. How can your relationships not improve when you know how to do this? When you think about it, all human relationships, big or small, fail because of just one simple reason: people thinking of themselves more than of others.

So.... This thing I learned:

That the ultimate gauge of your relationship with God is the quality of your relationships, because it's a gauge of how much you are willing to give up yourself. Giving up yourself is often very hard, but when we can learn this art and do it consistently, improved relationships are the sure blessings you will get.

Isn't God's design just perfect? :) You want a better life? Give up yourself and follow Me.

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And here's another thing I have learned:

Don't date until you know how to relate. You will just end up hurting the person you intend to love.